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Good morning! It is a cold (but only like 60 something, it is supposed to be nice today :) ) brisk morning on this last day on 2008. I don’t know how you feel about it, but where the heck did the time go?! Personally I am excited for 2009. Excited to get married, travel (i have another destination question for you all later), move (our lease is up in November :) ) and to turn a quarter of a century. Freakin 25. When did I become an adult? This post is going to be about hair, but later I will ask for some tips on another honeymoon location, and I will finally complete the 6 interesting things about me tag I received from The Coffee Girl. But I think I may morph it into 6 resolutions, given the day and all. 

Ok, on to hair. So, I have long, straight blonde hair. It has always been like that. Except 6th grade where I tried out the bob. Not terrible, but obviously not cute enough to keep it going. I don’t like to style it. I do put a flat iron on it to smooth it down, but if I were to just never blow dry it or anything, it would be… straight.  And it detests the word curly. I don’t, it’s the hair. 

Example. In 7th grade I was in Bye Bye Birdie at school. (Huge mistake, but whatever. I still have nightmares about the audition we had to do in front of class… singing… in front of 7th graders.)  I had to wear my hair in a ponytail with the ends curled. I slept in rollers. I used three cans of hairspray. I had to re-curl my hair at every 5 minute break I had (big surprise I didn’t get a very big part) And by the end of the show my hair was one big, hair-sprayed straight mess.

So, you can see my dilemma when I fall in love with hairstyles like this:

Maybe my stylist has some magical fairy dust that makes straight hair that hates curls forget for a few hours…  

Picture from here.

3 comments

1 Abbie { 12.31.08 at 8:36 am }

I feel the same way about 09– bring it on!

My hair is the same way, except brunette. I have tons of hair that is very straight. It’s so heavy it doesn’t hold a curl at all. I’ve decided that I like my hair better when I’m in humidity because I don’t style it and it still has some bounce. I’m going with a relaxed updo, as much as I’d love to have it down.

2 Stephanie Flanders { 12.31.08 at 10:45 am }

So start using a volumizing shampoo/conditioner. ANd before you blow dry, use a volumizing cream or serum. Hair has to be trained!!!! Ask your hairdresser too, they always have tricks up their sleeves!

Happy ‘09!!

3 H { 01.02.09 at 3:12 pm }

I’m Asian so I know what you mean about the difficulty of trying to get soft curls!! What you can do is get a perm. I know I know everyone has bad memories of 80’s perms but you can get one done for soft curls and it looks lovely. I got it done several times (it’s straight and natural now) and people always used to ask if how I curled it.

Email me if you got questions!

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