We Met in a Bar

EEQ

We all know by now that we can not change our significant other, right? Good. I mean, if they feel like changing because of the example you set, then great, but dating someone with the expectation of change is just trouble.  Here are todays questions:

1. What specific changes would I like to see you make once we are married? 

2. What do I expect of myself as your wife/husband? What do I expect of you as my husband/wife? (This one was good for us. I was able to ask Bryan exactly what he expected of me, specifically finances wise.)

3. Are we on the same page when it comes to handling the assets and debts we each bring to the marriage? How will we do this?

4. What is more important to me in a job, the amount of money earned or the level of job satisfaction?

1 comment

1 Elizabeth { 01.20.09 at 2:18 am }

Just want to thank you for posting the questions that you found meaningful/significant from the Engaged Couples weekend. I’m not even engaged (yet!) and I think these are really important questions to think about. I won’t spring them on my beloved yet but I’m saving them for later!

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